FOR ALL THE SINGLE LADIES...
Take a moment and read it.
I MUST MARRY THIS YEAR!
So, in my final year in school, i met this girl who
was desperate for marriage, she said bitterly; "any
guy who comes my way now and proposes, i will
just say yes to him."
I was shocked to hear a graduate speak like that.
She continued, "all my mates are married, why cant
i? "
And later, i met another lady, who was fasting and
praying, that a guy will just say hello to her.
She said, "look Bless, whether the devil likes it or
not, i must marry this year.".
So i asked, "why"?
"All my mates are married.
My female friends in school are all married.
Besides, i dont want to return to my father's house
without a man, i'm tired of him not respecting me,
as he respects my sisters who are already married
"that was her reply.
I asked again, "is that all the reasons why you want
to get married? "
She said, "Bless, i want to be happy, i need to
settle down, i want a man that will make me happy"
So i asked, "so you are not happy being single,?"
She laughed saying that i wont understand what it
feels like being single, when all your friends are
married.
Then she dropped a bomb that made me shout
unconsciously.She said,, "if i dont marry now, who
would be my maid of honour, who would be my
bride's maids?when all my friends all get married"
"jeez, are you really ok?
So you wanna marry because of brides maides?
You wanna marry because you wanna be happy?
I asked her.
Then i asked her, "if you marry now, what can you
contribute to your husband's life? "
She kept quiet.
"What impact would you make in your children's
life? She kept quiet.
"How would you assist your husband? "
She said, its not her role to assist her husband, that
her husband is supposed to take care of her and
her family.
In fact lemme cut the long story short, she ended
by stating that, her only role is to satisfy her
husband sexually and give birth to children, as for
cooking, though she cant cook , her husband will
definitely eat her food like that, since he has no
other option.
This idiosyncrasy of getting married immediately
after school, has made many young girls useless. In
fact they are going "gaga".
Yea, i mean absolutely useless to their family,
husband, children, generation, society at large and
even useless to their creator.
Before you quote me wrong, i am not against
marriage after school or even before finishing
school, no, not at all.
My point is marriage without a vision,marriage
without purpose.
Most ladies, think marriage is just the climax of
their career, after marriage, nothing more than to sit
down and raise children.
Young lady, please get a life first.
If the highest thing that can happen to a woman is
marriage, then there is no need for women going to
school.
Mothers should have just taught their daughters
how to cook,have sex and raise children, but you go
to school so you can be useful to yourself, family,
and society.
If you cant be happy as a single lady, there is no
guarantee that you would be happy as a married
woman.
If you cant be respected as a single lady, there is
no guarantee you will be respected as a married
woman, because its still the same you that is
getting married, you didnt change, or did you?
You graduated from the University with a first class
result, only to end up as a full time house wife,
whose job is to cook, have sex and reproduce,
nothing more.
My dear, you shouldn't have been to school in the
first place,
I heard a young girl, saying, "me, i dont want to
suffer again oo, i have suffered enough, i cant marry
a man who does not have an estate of his own, at
least two cars, etc, a man who cannot propose to
me with a car key" What an illusion!
So i asked, her, "You've got a nice dream girl, there
is nobody who doesnt like good things,but if i may
ask, what are you doing now?"
She said, "i dont understand " I said "what are you
doing, to earn the attention of such a man?
She was mute, then said, "i dress hot to kill,make
up that when he passes by, he cant resist my
charm"
Yea, so many gurls, are like this,
Get a job, no
Acquire a skill, no,
Do a little business, no
Read books, that will develop their lives, no
All you do, after school, is to sit down, fold hands,
be walking about aimlessly just praying that mr.
right will fall from heaven,
being sex toy to "chewing gum guys" just because
us you're desperate for marriage...
Dear lady, if only you know your worth, you would
sit up, and think of something reasonable to do
with your life.
If you marry that rich guy of your dream and have
nothing to offer, nothing, no single idea,
You might lose him to another woman when he's in
need of assistance and you cant help
Its a good thing to marry young, but, how would you
manage a home when you cant even manage
yourself ?
Sit up dearie, there is a great virtue hidden in you,
your family, children, husband, society, need that
virtue, dont bury it, utilize it, now and even after
marriage.
Make your man proud and happy.
Let him know he has an asset not a liability.
Stop panicking if someone will marry you if you let
that guy playing with your destiny go, yes dear, you
would find a man who deserves you and would
cherish you. You are a treasure.
It hurts me when i see young gurls being desperate
for marriage, you have more to offer to your world.
Dont let that talent be buried.
Affect a soul with it.
"Decency".


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